Sunday, November 2, 2014

You Don't Have to Win Big to Feel Like a Big Winner

What's the difference between winning and winning big?  When making a better life for yourself, it's the feeling that counts.  At first glance, we might assume the dollar amount matters most, but what about the intrinsic value of being a part of something bigger than ourselves?  When we win as part of a bigger group, the feelings are deeper and resonate more fully with us.........a big "YAY".

The psychology of fantasy football is interesting.  The people I know that enjoy it feel like they have paid the salaries of the players, coached them, and they get insulted when the plays don't result in a touchdown.  They have passion, dedication, and are committed to the necessary effort it takes to be involved in putting the best team together for the chance to win.  

What about playing the lottery as part of a group?  Whether it's a win of a few dollars or a few hundred dollars, sharing the "love" makes it feel bigger.  The goal is to expand your "winning consciousness", are you willing to give it a try?  Let's find a way to expand our feelings of fun, prosperity, and knowing what it's like to anticipate winning.  It should feel easy and effortless, that's when you know your practice has paid off.

Online gaming commonly has no benefit other than bragging rights.  Why would people who win consistently online sometimes have low self-esteem offline?  Acknowledgment and validation of our efforts must be part of the equation.  We all crave those "payoffs", too.

Winning doesn't have to be about money at all.  If you haven't won the Power Ball lottery yet, have you won the "family lottery", the "friends lottery", or the "gifted with amazing talent and/or intelligence" lottery?  It's all about feeling like a "winner", and once you know how that feels, trying to strengthen those feelings.  When you do, the world begins to open up for you.

Have a wonderful day!

xo
Conni

Today's Matra:  I choose to expand my winning consciousness.


Mantra for Every Day: I choose to send love to all; receiving love back multiplied in infinite proportions, creating and nurturing pathways of love.




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