My husband's aunt turned 90 and she is in great health, physically and mentally. There were guests from around the country and she even had some international guests. (Canada counts as international, right?) Of course, there were incredible invitations and photo albums that told stories, beautiful flowers, cakes to die for, a bit of dancing, music and toasts to the guest of honor. But there was an alchemy that happened because no one was there for the food, dessert or entertainment, we were there for her. She appreciated it and we knew how much she appreciated it and we appreciated that she appreciated it.
It's really exciting to be part of something bigger than yourself. We looked forward to it months in advance and we will cherish the memories of it forever. There was no way we weren't going to be a part of it. Attendance was "a given" for us so we made it happen. Frequent flyer miles and hotel points were used with smiles on our faces:) We lucked out because the kids had off school.
The definition of alchemy, "a seemingly magical power", brings an outcome greater that the sum of its parts. It's not ever about striving for perfection, there were a few mishaps included in our gathering. It's more about letting go of the need for perfection to find tremendous joy and happiness in the midst of the imperfection of life.
I would guess that some of the guests didn't feel it, not everyone takes the time to notice it. It might come later in the retelling of an emotional moment, or the heartfelt details noticed in looking at the pictures. It might not come to everyone. If you have a moment of alchemy, try to cherish it. We are all pieces of a larger puzzle, but sometimes we have an understanding of knowing some moments are more magical than others. It happens as pieces fit together with perfect harmony.
Have a great day!!
Xo
Conni
Today's Mantra: I intend to notice magical moments in my life.
Mantra for Every Day: I choose to send love to all; receiving love back multiplied in infinite proportions, creating and nurturing pathways of love.
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