I think of opportunities like great, big, brightly wrapped packages on each of our doorsteps. Some people look out the door and say, "no thanks, not interested". Others are worried that opportunities might be booby-trapped, or that they are on "Punked" or "Candid Camera" and are afraid to open the package. Then there are those who say, "If I open this package, I have to reciprocate", so I would be better off letting it go to someone else.
Do you know your "go to" choice for new opportunities knocking at your door? Here's an example, what do you say when you are given a compliment? Is it, "please, don't" or "please don't stop (giving me compliments)", received with gratitude and appreciation, of course. Being willing to receive is a skill and many of us have to practice it.
Start with role-play situations if you need practice, "Here, take this precious gift, I wanted to give it to you just because you are special". If you are feeling uncomfortable or start looking around for the hidden cameras, you are going to need more practice. Do you say or think, "No, that's too much" or "I haven't done enough to deserve it"?
All good feelings need to grow and expand. If you can open your (imaginary) front door and say, "Wow, a big, bright opportunity was just delivered, where's that package opener we bought on that infomercial?" Then you are heading in the right direction;)
Once you open the opportunity, you don't have to keep it to yourself. You can share it, pass it on, or return to sender if it has negative connotations. But knowing that we are taking the time to check it out is an important step in our growth.
Have a great day!
xo
Conni
Today's Mantra: I choose to open the door to new opportunities.
Mantra for Every Day: I choose to send love to all; receiving love back multiplied in infinite proportions, creating and nurturing pathways of love.
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