Learning From My Dogs

I sometimes think about how my dogs live in the moment and don't have the long-term worries that we have as humans.  Since I believe I am here to learn and grow, I wouldn't choose their way of life over mine, but the ability to live in the moment is demonstrated by them every day and it is an interesting concept to ponder........................

Optimism:  they always think my main purpose in life is to take care of them and give them belly rubs.

Faith:  that I will fill their food and water bowls when they are empty; that they have unlimited supply. 

Forgiveness:  I know that they are doing their best and they do not have a hidden agenda.  I forgive them easily.  They forgive me easily.

Unconditional Love:  they are so excited to see me, even when I have let them down in the past; they are happy just because I am here.

Hope:  they expect a treat when they come in from outside; they always expect belly rubs.

Joy:  they find happiness in the simple things: running through the yard, sitting next to me, listening when I praise them.

Protection:  they believe it is their job to protect me from squirrels and bunnies.  They do it without hesitation and without questioning their own safety.

I have become the dog owner they expect me to be.  Their eyes let me know whether I have lived up to their expectations, but when I don't, they don't hold a grudge.  It's a wonderful, stress-free relationship.  I feel blessed to have them in my life.  

So how does this relate to the rest of my life?  I believe close, dependent relationships are better when we have clear expectations, boundaries, and consequences (most of the time).  It takes away the judgment and surprises which can lead to misunderstandings.  Understandably, though, as humans we are all doing the best we can and evolving at our our pace.

Have a wonderful day!!

Xo

Conni

Today's Mantra:  I intend to enjoy stress-free relationships as much as possible.

Mantra for Every Day: I choose to send love to all; receiving love back multiplied in infinite proportions, creating and nurturing pathways of love.