Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Do You Wish You Had A Time Machine?

Do you wish you had a time machine?  Would you make different decisions, other than picking the correct lottery numbers :)  The bigger issue is that we all have free will to make our choices, so if you made a different choice, everyone else could react differently to that choice and the consequences are unknown.

Good or bad, right or wrong, most of us are doing the best we can in our lives.  Each mistake is a gift of learning how to do better the next time a similar situation comes up for us.  Even though we cannot turn back time, we have the ability to reduce the struggle and pain of beating ourselves up for our mistakes.  That is important for our future successes.

If you beat yourself up, chances are you do not fully and completely love yourself.  As human beings, we all make plenty of mistakes.  The "perfect ones" are fooling you, and maybe themselves, too.  We are all deserving of the knowledge that our best is enough, because we were born.  If you were born into a family that didn't teach this, each day is a fresh start/clean slate.  Please write it in BOLD on that clean slate "I AM ENOUGH"!!

I am good enough; you are good enough; we are all good enough.  That doesn't mean we should try to enter a competition without practice, it means we know that deep down, we can build competency with practice, intention, passion and a little help from our friends.  We don't need to prove our worth as human beings because we are worthy!!

Instead of wishing to turn back time, let's hope that learning from our mistakes becomes timeless wisdom in creating better futures.  If you surrounded yourself by people in the past that made bad choices, maybe you can change that if you haven't already done so.  Surrounding yourself by others who already believe they are enough creates a positive atmosphere for change.

Have a great day!!

xo
Conni




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